But what if they don’t like me?

As humans we spend countless hours doubting ourselves, and wondering those 2 words that we fight with daily :

whatif

What if I can’t do it? What if I don’t get the job? What if I fail? What if I just suck at life? What if my business fails?

Let’s look at how negative those two words can really be , and why it is time to change the stinkin thinkin. Take out the “what if” from each Question and this is what you are left with: 

I can’t do it. I don’t get the job. I fail. I just suck at life. My business fails.

See how taking the what if out of these questions leaves you knowing how you REALLY feel about yourself? Not so fun to see it in it’s raw, naked form, huh?

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As the phrase suggests above, you CAN change, and it begins with you! First, know that you are not the only person that feels this way. We all experience feelings of inadequacy from time to time, some more than others. We have all had failures both personal and business wise; it is how we bounce back from these failures that really matter!

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Repeat after me: Failure is good. “Say whaaa, Erin??” Yes, failure is good! If have never failed, you have never tried! Most people only dream of accomplishing certain things in life, but the moment you try, and put forth an effort to succeed, whether you fail or not is irrelevant; YOU TRIED! YOU are an inspiration for going for it!  I am going to give you some amazing facts below that will blow you’re mind: 

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Ok, time to close that agape mouth 😉 This is to show you that not everyone has life handed to them on a silver platter, they work, and work, and work , and WORK for what they want. If you have a dream, goal, and vision you CANNOT give up. Every venture in life, whether a success or not provides you with valuable information on how to continuously make it better.  Practice truly does make perfect, but remember, there’s no shortcut. You’ve got to try, fail, refine, wash rinse and repeat.

Do not just sit there expecting life to come to you, get up, move your feet and grab onto the life that you want, what have you got to lose? Nothing. What have you got to gain? Everything.

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                                                                    XOXO Fans,

Dramatique Erin

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